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It’s Never Too Late to Choose Adoption for Your Baby

In fact, women often turn to adoption later in their pregnancies or even after delivery; circumstances and feelings change, and sometimes parenting is no longer a viable option. Adoption has a huge impact on both you and your baby, and such a significant decision does not come with a deadline.

Keep reading to learn about your options for a last-minute or after-delivery adoption.


Frequently Asked Questions About Last-Minute Adoptions

How late can I place my child for adoption?

Regardless of your stage of pregnancy – or even if you’ve already had the baby – it’s not too late to place your baby.

What is the quickest way to complete my adoption?

If you don’t know of a family to adopt your child, contacting an adoption agency would be the best way to complete an adoption on short notice because agencies are equipped to help you with every stage of the process.

Will I be able to find a family in time?

Absolutely – adoption agencies have multiple families who have been pre-screened and are waiting to adopt a child, and you will be able to find one that will be ready and able to raise your baby.

Do I have to tell the baby’s father?

The birth father’s rights must also be terminated for an adoption to be official. In some cases, this might be done without the father’s consent. Read our section on birth father rights to learn more about this.

What if my baby has a health issue?

Medical complications will not prevent you from placing your child for adoption. If you are concerned that your child has or will have a health issue, speak to your adoption specialist or adoption attorney.

What if my family doesn’t support my decision?

You do not need to have your family’s consent to go through with an adoption. With that in mind, it is always better to have the support of your loved ones, and an adoption specialist can speak to your family if you request it.

How long does it take to make the adoption official?

Depending on the state you live in, your rights will be terminated sometime shortly after the birth of the child, usually between 12 and 72 hours.

What do I do about the medical and legal costs?

In many cases, the adoptive family you choose will cover the costs of the hospital bills and legal fees.

Where to Start: Choosing an Agency

Many last-minute adoptions are completed successfully with the help of an agency because of the following benefits:

  • Everything in one place – Agencies will have waiting families that have already completed their home studies, and once you make a choice, they will help you to legalize the adoption. They will also be able to mediate future contact between you and the adoptive family.
  • Support and guidance – If you are feeling uncertain, confused, or just plain overwhelmed by the process, your adoption specialist can help you work through it. This will help increase your chances of a healthy, successful adoption.
  • Knowledge and experience – Adoption agencies have all of the tools to help women just like you and have likely handled many situations that are very similar to yours.
    An adoption attorney can also be used in these types of adoption, but they may not be fully equipped to handle last-minute adoptions as quickly as an adoption agency can.

Last-Minute and After-Delivery Adoption Plans

Women in your position can receive guidance through the adoption process, regardless of how much time they have. However, completing an adoption on short notice means this process might look a little different. If you choose to contact an agency, you will have one adoption specialist who will take you through the following steps:

  • Selecting a family – An adoption agency can quickly email you adoptive families that match the criteria you are looking for. All of the families you view will have been screened, so you can rest assured that they are ready to raise a child.
  • Contacting the family – Once you choose a family, your specialist can get you into contact with them very quickly so you can still talk to them and get an idea of what they are like in a short time frame. In some cases, you could choose a family and then meet them in person that day.
  • Legalizing the adoption – Agencies often work with a network of adoption attorneys whom you will need to make the adoption official.

Drawbacks to Last-Minute Adoption Plans

While you can get help with an adoption plan at any time, it is ideal to reach out to an adoption agency as soon as you are comfortable. Building your adoption plan on short notice has its share of disadvantages, including:

  • Less time for counseling – Counseling is one of the many services adoption agencies provide and helps you to be sure that you are emotionally ready for adoption. In a last-minute adoption, you will be making this decision with minimal counseling and support.
  • Less time to meet the family – Women who create an adoption plan early in their pregnancies have the opportunity to get to know the adoptive family they choose. In a last-minute adoption situation, there is very little time for pre-placement contact to ensure the family is right for your situation.
  • Less preparation – Some parts of the adoption process can be complicated and confusing, and dealing with all of it at once can be overwhelming for some women.

The Takeaway

You probably have a mounting list of questions at this time in your life, but “Is it too late to give my baby for adoption?” does not have to be one of them. Because of the complexity of the process, though, it can be in your best interest to seek out an adoption agency, which will be equipped to provide you with any help you may need.

Remember that adoption is always an option for you and your child, and if you have decided that it’s the right path, then there is a way to make it happen.