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Thoughts from a Birth Mother

How I Interact with My Son through Open Adoption – Thoughts from a Birth Mother

I love visiting my son. I love talking to my son. I believe that communication is crucial to have a healthy relationship with my son, or in any relationship for that matter. My hope, and my experience, is that as my son grows up, he knows how much I love him. He’s Just a Kid […]

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Is it Possible to Reverse an Adoption?

While it is extremely unusual for an adoption to be overturned, there are some exceptions. An adoption may be reversed under limited circumstances.

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What You Can Learn About Adoption from ‘This is Us’

“This is Us” is one of the biggest hits to come out of this fall’s television lineup. But, did you know that it has close ties to adoption? Focusing on the everyday trials of one family, the show is told in multiple timelines, from the birth of the children to their lives at age 36. […]

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Spiritual Resources for Healing – Thoughts from a Birth Mother

There are so many resources out there regarding healing, spirituality, and trauma recovery. There are great resources that are positive and beneficial, yet there are those that propagate a negative connotation of perpetual pain. Depending on the foundation of faith that you have, different resources will be helpful to some, while other resources will be […]

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Adoption Feature Stories

How One Adoptee is Using Her Miss Texas Platform for Adoption

When Shelby Patrice Jenkins was a baby, her mother abandoned her at a caregiver’s house. She spent the next year and a half at the Crisis Center in Miami with many other foster children, all waiting for their forever families. Adopted at 19 months old, she would live with her adoptive parents for 10 years […]

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Why It's Important to Live for Yourself – Thoughts from a Birth Mother

I have dreamt for so long that I would do something significant with my life. Then, I gave birth to the most beautiful baby that ever existed. My son became the reason that I functioned. He became the reason that I took a breath. He became my “everything”. He stayed my “everything”, even after I […]

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Feelings to Expect After Placement – Thoughts from a Birth Mother

Grief The first emotion I experienced after placement was grief. I was overwhelmed by what felt like the greatest loss I had ever experienced. In the moment after I watched my son’s parents drive away with him in the car, I fell to the floor, sobbing as if every tear I could ever cry had […]

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4 Ways to Cope with Unsupportive Family Members – Thoughts from a Birth Mother

I dealt with betrayal from unsupportive friends and family members. I lost my home, most of my family, many friends, and grew very weary due to the decision to place my child for adoption. The following tips helped me to cope with the losses. Some of these helped immediately, while others took time. Yet, the […]

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Thoughts from a Birth Mother

Tips for Meeting the Adoptive Parents – Thoughts from a Birth Mother

The first time I met with my son’s mother was very eye opening. I realized that a future for my son was possible. I became aware that dreams can come true. I had a vision for who I wanted my son to be with, and on that day, my wish came true. Actions Speak Louder […]

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Adoptive Family

What Nicole Kidman’s New Film Can Teach Adoptive Parents

In “Lion,” Nicole Kidman plays the adoptive mother to an Indian boy named Saroo Brierley. When he looks for his birth parents 25 years later, she supports him.

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