8 Months Pregnant & Don’t Want the Baby [What to Do]

If you’re 8 months pregnant and still unsure of which option is right for you and your baby, you’re not alone. Many women don’t know what to do with an unplanned pregnancy until they’re approaching their due date.

While parenting is a great option for many women, you might instead be asking, “If you’re 8 months pregnant, is adoption still an option?” or “What options do I have left when I’m almost 8 months pregnant and don’t want the baby?”

Adoption is always an option for you, no matter how far into your pregnancy you are.

Given the fact that delivery could occur any day now, it is important to reach out to an adoption professional to discuss your options and to begin planning your adoption.

For now, keep reading about the options you have for your pregnancy at 8 months.

Your Baby’s Development at 8 Months

Even though your baby’s almost here, don’t forget to take care of your health as you continue weighing your options. Here are some important things you should know about your baby’s development at 8 months.

Anytime you want to learn more about your baby’s development or options for your pregnancy, contact us today to learn more.

Your Unplanned Pregnancy Options at 8 Months

If you’re 8 months pregnant and don’t want the baby, or don’t feel prepared to parent the baby, then you may be wondering what options you have. At this stage in your pregnancy, there are generally two routes you can choose: adoption or parenting.

Adoption

Some women ask, “If you’re 8 months pregnant, is adoption still an option?” and “Can you still find adoptive parents if you’re 33, 34, or 35 weeks pregnant?”

Absolutely.

Many prospective birth mothers make an adoption plan during their pregnancy, at the hospital, and even after they take their baby home. No matter what your situation is, it’s never too late to choose adoption. 

If you’re 31, 32, or 33 weeks pregnant but don’t want the baby, here’s what the adoption process will look like when you’re 8 months pregnant:

Although it’s never too late to choose adoption, it’s never too early to get a head start.

If you’re almost 8 months pregnant and don’t want the baby, call an adoption professional as soon as you can. That way, you’ll have more time to pick a family, make a hospital plan, think about how much contact you want, and more.

Parenting 

Your baby’s due date is approaching quickly. Right now, you’re probably feeling stressed out and overwhelmed figuring out how to prepare for your first day of parenthood. 

If you’re just now considering this unplanned pregnancy option, but you think it might be right for you, now is the time to really get started in preparing for the arrival of your baby. Some things you can do include:

• Starting to build your savings
• Talk to friends and family who will be ready to help
• Start getting everything you need ready for your baby’s arrival

You should also think about packing your hospital bag. It’s a small step in the grand scheme of things, but it will really make your life that much easier. If you’ve haven’t already, now would be a great time to take a tour of the hospital you’ll be staying at.

Adoption vs Parenting

Now that we’ve laid out your options, you’ve got some important things to think about. Knowing which option is right for you is a decision only you can make.

While you think about which option is right for you, it might be helpful to consider a few key factors like:

• Your financial situation
• Your living situation
• Your support system
• Your relationship with the birth father
• Your readiness to be a parent
• Your plans for the future

Whether you decide to choose adoption or parenting, it’s important to be completely sure before you make your choice. The good news is that there are plenty of resources available to help you make your decision.

If you’re 32, 33, 34, or 35 weeks pregnant and want to look into adoption, please contact an adoption professional at any time to get more support with your unplanned pregnancy options.