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Months 1 & 2 of Unwanted Pregnancy [What Are My Options?]

If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, we can help you get back on track.

When it comes to unplanned pregnancy options, you have 3 options available to you:

  1. 1

    Adoption

  2. 2

    Parenting

  3. 3

    Abortion

Finding out that you’re unexpectedly pregnant is a life-changing, emotional experience. You likely already had plans for your future mapped out, like your education or your career goals. You have unplanned pregnancy options at one month that can allow you to return to the path you had intended for your life.

No matter how you’re feeling or what kind of situation you’re in, we want to help.

If you’re ready to speak to an adoption professional, you can contact us online.

In the meantime, here’s everything you need to know about months 1 & 2 of an unwanted pregnancy.

How To Avoid An Unwanted Pregnancy After One Month

Morning-after pills, or emergency contraception, can be used after you have unprotected sex or your regular birth control method fails. It works best when you take it as soon as possible to prevent an unplanned pregnancy. The best time to take it is within 24 hours, but it can still be effective after 72 hours.

If you just missed that short window, you still have three to five days to take it. Unfortunately, emergency contraception is ineffective if you’re already pregnant. 

If it has already been a few weeks, and you’ve confirmed your pregnancy with your doctor, then you’ll need to start looking at your options for an unplanned pregnancy.

Five Or Six Weeks Pregnant And Don’t Want To Be [Unplanned Pregnancy Options]

After you’ve taken care of your health needs, you can start focusing on what to do with your pregnancy. Like we said, you’re still early on when you’ve just found out you’re five or six weeks pregnant and don’t want to be. You have some time to consider all of your options. 

There are a couple of things to keep in mind during your second month of pregnancy:

  • 5 Weeks Pregnant:

    This is the most common time to find out you are pregnant since pregnancy technically starts on the first day of your last period. You’re likely feeling some pregnancy symptoms, like nausea or fatigue.

  • 6 Weeks Pregnant:

    This is also a common time to find out about pregnancy. It’s important to find a medical professional to work with as your pregnancy progresses.

  • 7 Weeks Pregnant:

    It seems crazy, but by this time in most pregnancies, you can detect a heartbeat. The embryo is really starting to grow!

  • 8 Weeks Pregnant:

    It’s close to time for your first prenatal checkup. Staying on top of your health during a pregnancy is vitally important.

If you are around five weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, you have three basic options: parenting, abortion, and adoption.

Two Months Pregnant [And Don’t Want the Baby]

If you’re two months pregnant and don’t want the baby because you’re not ready to parent or just don’t want to, you’re not alone.

If you are five, six, or seven weeks pregnant and don’t want to be pregnant, there are options for you. This unplanned pregnancy doesn’t have to keep you from the future you had dreamed for yourself. You may be in the middle of pursuing career goals, or money could be too tight to raise a child. It’s okay to be six, seven, or even eight weeks pregnant and not want the baby. In fact, it’s completely understandable.

If you’d like to speak to an adoption professional now, you can contact us online.

ADOPTION

Adoption is an incredibly selfless decision. With this two-month pregnancy option, you can give your baby the future you always planned for them.

If you choose this path, you get to:

  • Create a personalized adoption and hospital plan.
  • Choose the perfect family for your child.
  • Work with a licensed adoption professional who is available 24/7.
  • Receive financial support.
  • Focus on your baby and getting to know the family you choose while your professional handles the rest.

You’ll also decide how much contact you’re open to after the adoption and look forward to carrying on whatever type of relationship you want with your echild.

Adoption is completely free. If you are one month pregnant and don’t want the baby, choosing adoption now can alleviate the financial burden from medical costs that come with pregnancy — not to mention cost-of-living expenses like rent, utilities, transportation, and groceries.

Adoption is completely free, and it’s never too late.

“I knew my life did not stop after adoption. It gave me a second chance to pursue my goals and dreams so that I can be a better version of myself and help people along the way. I wanted to show my daughter that I didn’t give up on myself and, more importantly, her.”

- Julia , who placed her child for adoption.

It’s never too late to contact us to learn more about adoption and determine if it’s the best option for you.

PARENTING

Parenting might not be your first choice after finding out about your unplanned pregnancy. Before committing to this unplanned pregnancy option, you should assess your situation to make sure it’s the right decision for you.

For example, what does your living situation look like? What about your finances? Ask yourself if you’re truly ready to be a parent before you consider this option. But, if you know that you are, you’ll want to start preparing as soon as possible.

ABORTION

Abortion is your earliest unplanned pregnancy choice. However, abortion laws are changing, and in many states, abortion is now illegal. You’ll want to check your state abortion laws to know for sure what is available to you. 

Some women are certain that this is the only option for them once they find out about their pregnancy and start looking for options for an abortion at 5–8 weeks pregnant.

If you’re considering an abortion at four weeks or even earlier, then you need to speak with your doctor as soon as possible so that they can tell you what your options are.

What Should I Do Next?

After finding out about your unplanned pregnancy, you have a lot to consider. It’s never too early to start researching your options, and every situation is unique. 

“You’re not giving your babies up. You’re just giving them a better life… it’s unselfish, you know? That’s their lives you’re thinking about — it’s not just your life. You’re giving them the opportunity to live the best life that they can and the life you know that you can’t give them.”

- Janelle , a birth mother grateful for adoption.

Remember that this is a big decision, so keep in mind that you still have time to take a step back and think about your options.

If you have any questions or if you’re ready to learn more about your options, you can contact us to get free information from a trained adoption specialist.